Paul Mescal Has Been Working Things Out

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Paul Mescal in London. Photo / Tom Jamieson, The New York Times

The actor, who became a sudden sex symbol with Hulu’s Normal People, stars as another psychologically complex character in the A24 feature Aftersun, writes Douglas Greenwood.

LONDON — Appendicitis helped Paul Mescal to slow down. Since the start of 2022, the Irish actor has crisscrossed continents, attending film festivals in

But the illness in November last year was “a blessing in disguise,” he said in a recent interview at a London hotel, since it meant he got to spend a week at home with his family.

It’s not the first time the actor, 26, has been grateful for a break. Mescal has been working consistently since 2020, when his first television role as Connell in Hulu’s TV series Normal People earned him an Emmy nomination and sudden status as a sex symbol.

The show, adapted from Sally Rooney’s bestselling novel, arrived just after the coronavirus pandemic, and during the following months of lockdowns, Mescal became “uncomfortable” with the tenor of the attention he was getting, he said.

Paparazzi followed him around London and in interviews, journalists asked him questions such as whether the show helped him “get laid.” Mescal deleted his social media accounts, and left London. Talking about being objectified is “really tricky,” he said, acknowledging that the experience is well known to many women in his industry, and can have higher stakes for them.

Now, a couple of years after this first burst of fame, Mescal feels “like the ground is tenuously below my feet,” he said. He has thought carefully about the projects he’s chosen since, avoiding the blockbuster films that actors often land after a high profile breakout role.

Instead, he has sought out broken or emotionally complex characters, and prioritized working with directors he admires over the size of the part. Aftersun is his first lead role since Normal People.

 “I just feel protective of how the space for smaller films is shrinking and shrinking. That depresses me. So how do I strike a balance between my political ideations toward the world of film — which is in a very precarious place — versus doing an action film or a spy thriller?” Photo / Tom Jamieson, The New York Times
“I just feel protective of how the space for smaller films is shrinking and shrinking. That depresses me. So how do I strike a balance between my political ideations toward the world of film — which is in a very precarious place — versus doing an action film or a spy thriller?” Photo / Tom Jamieson, The New York Times

In the film, director Charlotte Wells’ debut, Mescal plays Calum, the 30-year-old Scottish father of 11-year-old Sophie (Frankie Corio). They spend a week at a Turkish holiday resort together, playing snooker and water polo, and doing karaoke.

The film is guided by their conversations, and also captures how Calum shields his daughter from his depression. In Normal People, Connell also struggled with his mental health, seeking therapy to help him process his emotions.

Mescal said he recognised that for many men “there is something traditionally terrifying” about being frank about your feelings. Before recently starting therapy, Mescal worried that he was going to “ruin” his acting work by rechanneling his emotional turmoil away from his performances.

But “that’s an unhealthy way to live,” he said. As Calum, Mescal “tenderly realises the complexity” of a character who is “wading through wells of quiet anguish,” filmmaker Barry Jenkins, who produced the film, wrote in an email interview.

The film was shot in “two specific rhythms,” Mescal said: the father and daughter sequences, which were “really fast and fun,” and the scenes that didn’t require Corio to be on set, where Calum is alone and suffering. “I found the private moments really upsetting,” Mescal said.

In one of those scenes, Calum sits naked on a bed at night, crying intensely. “I know we’re shooting on film,” he recalled telling Wells on set, “but I think we should run for as long as possible, because once it starts it’ll be hard for me to stop.”

A hit on the 2022 festival circuit, Aftersun has earned critical acclaim: Writing in The New York Times, Manohla Dargis called it “one of the strongest movies” she saw at the 2022 Cannes Film Festival, where it premiered in May. The production company A24 bought the U.S. distribution rights before the festival ended, and it arrived in theatres [in the U.S.] on Oct. 21.

The script draws on Wells’ own experiences, and she wrote it in sections. The difficult subject matter meant that when it came time for casting, she hadn’t read the script through in full. But Mescal had, three times, before their first phone call, Wells said, a show of commitment she found “inconceivable” at that point in the production process.

During the call, Wells saw a “drive to be good” in the actor, she said, and remembered hanging up and feeling “that rush of knowing you’ve just found someone great.”

Although Wells likes being in control on set, “I love the point where you cede that control to the collaborator to elevate that part of the process,” she said. “Paul was always someone that I could trust to do that.”

Mescal was born in Maynooth, a college town west of Dublin, in 1996. His mother is a member of Ireland’s police service and his father is a primary schoolteacher, who acted when Mescal was younger. Growing up, he loved playing Gaelic football, an Irish variation of soccer, until a role in his high school’s musical led to him playing the lead in Phantom of the Opera.

In his final year, Mescal eschewed a career that would allow him to keep playing professional — if unpaid — Gaelic football, and instead applied to drama school. The Lir Academy, in Dublin, accepted him before he got his final exam results, based on his audition alone. Mescal’s parents were supportive of his career choice, which was “an immense privilege,” he said. In an email interview, Olivia Colman, his co-star in 2021′s The Lost Daughter, wrote that, “He’s grounded and clearly comes from love.”

Along with his family, Mescal now has even more stabilizing elements in his life, including his partner [at the time of this interview, in November 2022], musician Phoebe Bridgers, and his pet dog. They are his structure, he said.

Mescal said he recognized that for many men “there is something traditionally terrifying” about being frank about your feelings. Before recently starting therapy, Mescal worried that he was going to “ruin” his acting work by rechanneling his emotional turmoil away from his performances. Photo / Tom Jamieson,The New York Times
Mescal said he recognized that for many men “there is something traditionally terrifying” about being frank about your feelings. Before recently starting therapy, Mescal worried that he was going to “ruin” his acting work by rechanneling his emotional turmoil away from his performances. Photo / Tom Jamieson,The New York Times

This year, Mescal is playing another complex character: Stanley Kowalski, the brusque antihero of A Streetcar Named Desire, directed by Rebecca Frecknall, at London’s Almeida Theater. Mescal has wanted to play the role since drama school, when a teacher told him he would be better suited to Mitch, the play’s more obviously sensitive male counterpart.

But despite describing Stanley as “incredibly toxic,” Mescal said he also sees him as smart, bullied and struggling with his class position. Frecknall recalled bonding with Mescal over the different shades of a character who “lives in the contradictions,” the director said in a phone interview.

“There are times in the scenes where Stanley cries like a baby, and scenes where he’s terrifying.” The process of finding someone to fulfill the dualities of the role started in the summer of 2020, when Frecknall agreed to speak to Mescal at the recommendation of her casting director.

At first, she thought Mescal was too young to play Stanley, she said, but then realised he was the same age as Marlon Brando when the latter starred in the 1951 movie adaptation. “I met him over Zoom in lockdown from my bedroom floor,” Frecknall said. Even in the aftermath of the success of Normal People, she said “he felt, to me, like a stage animal.”

Before rehearsals started at the end of November in London, Mescal was excited, but “there’s definitely an apprehension,” he said. Before his role on Normal People, he appeared in productions of The Great Gatsby and The Red Shoes at Dublin’s Gate Theater. The stage, he said, doesn’t take any prisoners.

Mescal’s slate of forthcoming onscreen projects, which includes the gay World War I romance The History of Sound and British director Andrew Haigh’s Strangers, is still lacking in big blockbuster titles. He has read the scripts for films of that caliber and budget, he said, but is thinking strategically about the future.

He wants films like Aftersun “to be my foundation,” he said. “I just feel protective of how the space for smaller films is shrinking and shrinking. That depresses me. So how do I strike a balance between my political ideations toward the world of film — which is in a very precarious place — versus doing an action film or a spy thriller?”

The closest he has come to making genre fare so far is Foe, a Garth Davis-directed feature Mescal described as “a kitchen sink drama with sci-fi elements.” He shot it in Australia last year with another Irish actor, Saoirse Ronan; the pair play husband and wife, and share almost every scene together.

“When he’s in, he’s in,” Ronan said of working with Mescal in a phone interview. “It becomes his whole world. But at the same time, Paul never disappears.”

This article originally appeared in The New York Times. Aftersun is available to watch on Mubi.

Written by: Douglas Greenwood

Photographs by: Tom Jamieson

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