I've spoken to a number of women lately who've expressed concern that their hairstylist ignores what they say.
These women have been after change but the stylist has talked them out of it.
In all cases, the women would have responded well to a different style or colour. One woman moved on to another salon (her new style looks fab), the others are contemplating a move.
As we age, change our style and attitudes or simply seek a fresh look, there's nothing better than a new hairstyle. Go to your stylist with an open brief, tell them you want change and ask for their recommendations.
I recently worked with a client who is in the throes of changing her whole style: she's going from quite a conservative, practical look to bold, individual and funky.