Don McCulloch can be forgiven for the fact that he knew nothing of the battle for Cassino, in Italy, where New Zealand troops served with distinction against determined German resistance. Nor was he aware that his father, Walter (Wally) McCulloch, was in the thick of it, and displaying courage that would be rewarded with the Military Medal.
Don was little more than a babe in arms when all that was going on, but his awareness has grown considerably since then, not only by virtue of the service rendered by his father, but also by the memento Wally brought home.
Don was in the dark about that too until he celebrated his 21st birthday in 1963, when his father presented him with the traditional key, which he had had fashioned from a piece of steel retrieved from the rubble at Cassino.
He hadnt said anything about it until that night, Don said last week, as a handful of old soldiers from New Zealand prepared to return to Cassino for the 70th anniversary commemorations.
The key is now a treasured possession, one of only a few tangible reminders of what his father and his fellow servicemen endured, and achieved, all those years ago.