Rainbow Storytime drag queen Sunita Torrance (aka CoCo Flash) said the library incident was "the worst abuse we have ever received by protesters.
"They were yelling, calling us demons and all sorts of things right in front of the kids, scaring them."
The library abuse made Torrance realise more grassroots action was needed in smaller cities outside of her home in Taranaki.
As an ally (heterosexual and cisgender person who supports LGBT+), Torrance is organising Ally Workshops in Whangārei through her charitable trust, OUT & PROUD.
The courses are for people to learn how to be better allies and support rainbow communities better in September/October this year.
The fire is feared to be an attack directly aimed at the LGBT+ groups using the building.
"Being an ally isn't about being okay with gay people. Being an ally is a call to action to create safe places for people of sexual and gender minorities," Mā said.
Mā said public complacency of hateful views makes it easier for LGBT+ people to be targeted by abuse.
"That means standing up when you see something that is not okay, even if there isn't a queer person in the room that you know of, even if it's one-on-one, even if it's a Facebook comment."
Those who are LGBT+ have a significantly higher likelihood of victimisation (experiencing crime) at 50 per cent compared with the New Zealand average of 29%, according to the 2021 New Zealand Crime and Victim Survey.
Bisexual people were especially at risk of victimisation at 61 per cent, more than double the national average.
About one in nine (11 per cent) adults who identified as gay, lesbian, bisexual and other adults with diverse sexuality were sexually assaulted within a 12-month period.
The New Zealand average was 2 per cent.
Mā said there was a "muddying the water" effect brought about by recent protests and movements across the country which had contributed to heightened risk.
"Often people when (people are) aligning with groups, if they don't look into the other policies or actions or beliefs of the group, you can be aligning yourself with some really hateful motives."
The anti-lockdown parliament protests demonstrated a range of ideologies and were organised by the Freedom and Rights Coalition founded by Destiny Church, known for its vocal opposition to homosexuality.
The college has recently been criticised for its "discriminatory" marriage beliefs and allegations of abuse targeting LGBT students, including chants of "kill the gays" from students.