The man from Kaikohe - whose name is suppressed to protect the identity of the children - is now on trial at the Whangārei District Court for 24 charges of violence against his family, 21 of which relate to his three children and the remainder to his partner.
The charges include assault with a blunt instrument, assault with a weapon, assault with intent to injure, assault on a child and injuring with intent to injure.
The children, all under 15, were allegedly assaulted by their father with various weapons which began when they were as young as 5.
The eldest child, allegedly bore the brunt of the abuse from her father and said on one occasion she was beaten across the face with a metal pole so hard, she passed out.
When she woke up, the Crown said she recalled she could not feel her face.
The girl was also allegedly assaulted by having her head rammed into a wall repeatedly. The father used such force that the wall broke, the Crown said.
“Every child should be able to live safely and securely but for some children, this is not the case,” Danette Cole said in Crown openings to the jury today.
Cole said the father had frequent bad moods and could be set off by the slightest thing such as the dishes not being done.
“When he was in a bad mood, the family suffered abuse.
“They were punched as if they were adults, slapped, kicked and stomped on... They would be hit for every year of their life, sometimes twice,” Cole told the jury.
The children had reportedly disclosed the abuse to aunties, uncles and grandparents who did nothing and even once extended family members witnessed him beating the youngest but still allegedly did nothing.
It was not until one of the children arrived at school with fresh marks on her body from an alleged beating with an extension chord the father was arrested.
The girl said in an evidential interview when she showed her teacher the bruises he responded, “This isn’t healthy.”
The man’s lawyer Martin Hislop told the jury the children were disciplined but not to the extent of the allegations.
“Keep an open mind and do not jump to conclusions... Do not be filled with prejudice because of what is alleged,” Hislop said.
The trial before Judge Gene Tomlinson is expected to last a week and a half.
FAMILY VIOLENCE
How to get help:
If you're in danger now:
• Phone the police on 111 or ask neighbours or friends to ring for you.
• Run outside and head for where there are other people. Scream for help so your neighbours can hear you.
• Take the children with you. Don't stop to get anything else.
• If you are being abused, remember it's not your fault. Violence is never okay.
Where to go for help or more information:
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Women's Refuge: Crisis line - 0800 REFUGE or 0800 733 843 (available 24/7)
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Shine: Helpline - 0508 744 633 (available 24/7)
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It's Not Ok: Family violence information line - 0800 456 450
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Shakti: Specialist services for African, Asian and Middle Eastern women and children.
• Crisis line - 0800 742 584 (available 24/7)
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Ministry of Justice: For information on family violence
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Te Kupenga Whakaoti Mahi Patunga: National Network of Family Violence Services
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White Ribbon: Aiming to eliminate men's violence towards women.
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Shannon Pitman is a Whangārei based reporter for Open Justice covering courts in the Te Tai Tokerau region. She is of Ngāpuhi/ Ngāti Pūkenga descent and has worked in digital media for the past five years. She joined NZME in 2023.