Certain combinations of words are troublesome - mostly they have a religious bent. For example: People saying they'll pray for me, makes me nervous.
On one level I like it - hey I need all the help I can get, but I don't want to feel spiritually beholden to anyone.
What if praying is subject to market forces? What if my spiritual demand is more than their praying capacity? What if there's an expectation of reciprocity?
When people say they are praying for me I have a fleeting feeling that they're doing so out of a sense of spiritual superiority. They have astral connections that I may need and they have access to a superior being that may not listen to me. Which is likely - after all the mean stuff I've said about Christian fundamentalists a smiting fiery kind of a God may feel disinclined to heed my supplications.
Then there's the years when I wore that "Mary is my Home Girl" T-shirt - I loved Mary in her pale blue hoody but my Nan remained unconvinced. I may have alienated myself from the Girl God Squad - if Mary, Kuan Yin, Pachamama, or Papatuanuku ever get together in some form of spiritual UN conference on who has been naughty and who has been nice, I only ask they look at deeds not words - sometimes I say stuff just for the fun of it.