WHERE do you come from? I get this question surprisingly often especially if I'm not speaking English.
I answer "west Auckland" or, alternatively, "Waipukurau" depending on whether I'm going for upbringing or birthplace.
This is often not the wanted answer - Pakeha (and it usually is Pakeha) want to hear I'm from somewhere exotic and not that I too, am Pakeha thereby messing with their definitions and hopefully their own identity. Good to stretch boundaries. What sticks is when people think they can read my politics or motives based on what my face tells them - my ethnic identity.
Which is why I'm feeling the love for NZ Chinese right now, especially those who want to buy a house in Auckland.
I don't think non-residents should own NZ property and I don't think that's racist. The racist rhetoric, however, is a direct result of the Government's ideological refusal to collect hard data or enquire into whether or not foreign non-residents, (South African, British or Russian millionaires, yup, the white ones count) are buying land here as the new form of gold in a stormy economic climate.