"We discuss openly the effects and harm that alcohol and other drugs have on the developing baby and its brain, and the potential behaviours that tamariki can display. It is through these discussions that mums realise that the behaviours their tamariki are as a direct result of their alcohol or substance abuse during pregnancy.
"For some, even though they knew they shouldn't be drinking or drugging, they did not fully understand the effect their choices would have on their tamariki."
From that realisation, she is able to invite the parents to own their children's behaviour. This is not to make parents or caregivers feel bad, but to help them develop coping strategies and instil a sense of responsibility to learn how they can help their children understand themselves.
"These are not kids who are born naughty. They behave differently because their brains are different. Because their brains are damaged, they often fail to understand the consequences of their actions.
"More often than not, this leads the young people into trouble at school and with the law."
-People with concerns about their drinking or that of others can phone the free Alcohol Drug Helpline on 0800-787-797.