When Blaine Rakena's 5-year-old son told his class all his Dad did was stay home and watch television the Kaikohe man knew he had to change.
That moment at parent-teacher day nearly 30 years ago still makes him feel "shame" but he now holds a PhD in science mathematics education and works as a business IT programme co-ordinator at the Waikato Institute of Technology (Wintec) in Hamilton.
"The teacher had all the children down on the mat and asked 'what does your Daddy do?' One said 'my Dad fixes all the sick people', another said 'he's a lawyer'. It got to my son and I wanted to get out of there, and he said 'I don't know what my Dad does, he just stays home and watches TV'."
Mr Rakena's story is featured in a new book celebrating Maori from Waikato which will be launched tomorrow at Wintec.
Mr Rakena, of Ngapuhi and Tainui descent, grew up in Kaikohe and said that while his parents encouraged him to pursue further education they allowed him to do what he wanted.