A few years ago I sat around a table with a suicide education worker, and a group of rugby players and administrators.
One of them was a burly ex-cop. He had probably seen the aftermath of suicide, and its lingering effect on families.
The suicide education worker was talking to the players among other things, about depression and whether they had been affected by suicide. It was obvious which players had been affected - they were silent.
They weren't going to open up in front of strangers that day, but hopefully they saw a door they could choose to walk through if they needed help.
Former Taniwha rugby player Kurt Davies has walked through that door, and now he's helping other people open it.