In this case I feel that my attitude on what I would do in the same situation is the wrong one. Too many young people, especially in contact sports, don't listen to the medical experts who are simply looking out for your health.
It's not like a doctor would tell you not to do a sport because they wanted to kill your fun, they're doing what you're not - looking after yourself.
Highlanders team doctor Greg Macleod said: "Due to the nature of the surgery, and what the surgeons were required to do to alleviate any ongoing issues, Buxton has been advised to stop playing rugby".
With that said, again, Popoalii has balls and is intelligent. And, even the Highlanders chief executive officer agrees with me.
Highlanders CEO Roger Clark said: "This is obviously a tough time for Buxton and his family. While we are delighted the operation has gone well and the outlook for his health is positive, we are naturally feeling for him and respect and fully support his decision to retire from rugby. I know the team and management have great admiration for Bucky and wish him a speedy recovery from his operation."
Now, Popoalii has been discharged from hospital and was recuperating well - recovering so one day he can be a father and a grandfather.
Something that immediately jumps to mind when thinking of young sportspeople looking out for their health is the "blue card" that Northland rugby referees are using to track and have concussions treated appropriately.
It is common knowledge among young sportspeople - especially those in contact sports - which is exactly why the concussion card has been put in place.
I say us young people, especially males, need to take a good hard look at ourselves.
I also say good on ya Buxton - you're a true role model for youth today in my eyes.
