Kaitoki Marae is located on the corner of Kaitoki River Rd and Weber Rd, on a block of land that was formerly owned by Mrs Ripeka Lilo, also known as Mary Lilo.
Mary had a whare there and in 1944, wanting to honour the Māori who had fought in both World Wars, she applied to the Native Land Court to gift her land and whare for this purpose.
In 1945 this was achieved with a court order which “… set aside as a Māori reservation for the common use of the Ngāti-Pakapaka tribe as a site for a meeting house and a memorial for Māori soldiers of the Dannevirke district”. The recognition was not only for Ngāti Pakapaka but for the hapū to acknowledge soldiers from local non-Māori families too, especially those living in and near the Kaitoki settlement. Mary’s generous gift provides a permanent memorial for the Kaitoki community to remember their men each Anzac Day.
Prior to 2006, a war memorial plaque with the names of local Māori and Pākehā soldiers was displayed on the back wall of the whare. The plaque sustained damage over the years and so in 2005 the decision was made to commission a new one.