Wouldn’t it be wonderful if we all had a perfect balance in our lives, where everything was rosy and in place?
Not perfect, but pleasant, and where happiness abounds all of the time. Haaah - but no, not so.
I guess without contention or spurious occurrences in our lives, we would not learn very much at all. The good, the bad, the weak, the strong, the soft, the hard, the highs and the lows that most of us experience in life at some time or other, help us as we go through life.
As witnessed in the lives of some of my grandchildren - one grandson, after a relationship breakdown and months of me listening to his guitar and his sad song that went on forever, has now finally ceased, and I sense some peace of mind in the air.
Or, there’s my granddaughter and her moments of melancholia. We quietly tiptoed around her until she eventually returned to her old self.