She was the seventh sibling born to a family of 13.
As she got older, Nell found work in various roles at Hotels throughout the country including Riverton, Dunedin Christchurch and Wellington as well as a position at the Newmarket Workingmans Club in Auckland, where she met her husband to be, Alec, whom she married in February 1949.
Nell adopted his two young sons as her own and went on to lease a hotel with her husband once they had left home.
In 1976, the couple settled in sunny Hawke's Bay and became active member of the Taradale Bowling Club and the church.