Identifying his nephew's body following a drink drive accident was the worst day of Flaxmere rapper Tipene Harmer's life.
It has taken the rising artist nearly five years to be able to talk about Richard Starr Harmer's death, who was "like his brother". Last week he performed his new song Letter to the Stars, based on the experience, to Year 8 students from 15 Hastings schools at the inaugural Keep it Real alcohol and drug expo.
"We grew up together, even though he is my nephew we were the same age so we were like brothers," he said.
"Everyone knew him and everyone loved him ... he just went for a night out with some people he had just met and it just happened so quick."
Richie, as he was known to friends and family, was travelling in a car driven by a drunk driver who took the corner from Brookfield Rd to Sissons Rd, Napier, too fast on December 1, 2007.