They say that a parent never recovers from the death of a child.
I suppose part of the reason is that children have so much promise and their exuberance makes you want to believe their future will be bright.
When a young life is cut short, hope dies.
The death of 4-year-old Uetaha Dahtanian Ransfield-Wanoa on October 8, 2013, when he was run over by a council mower at Kirkpatrick Park in Hastings was a tragedy in which there are no winners.
There has been much emotion and, at times, anger around who was to blame for his death. The mower driver, Ross David Pollock, and the Hastings District Council have admitted guilt and been sentenced. Accusations and condemnation have been thrown in other directions as well, but what is sometimes lost in the detail is that a carefree young boy lost his life in the most horrific of circumstances.