The best times were when she wasn't home. Then we could talk with the mower off, where I'd get lost in the reverie of his World War II stories.
During one particular ginger-beer session he told me he would send two very distinct letters home - one, to his father, where no detail was spared, the other penned to his wife and child (born a few months after his departure), full of niceties, sugarcoated to prevent her worrying.
When his unit was tenting somewhere, he couldn't understand why he woke bloodied with his temporary bunk in pieces. His campsite had been shelled, with most of his new friends killed.
I'm not surprised he survived. He was the stuff of teak. Such was the pressure, I'd wince at each handshake.
For the brave who served, today's Poppy Day has the effect of conjuring less happy reflections. For those of us who didn't, our veterans were kind enough to leave us fonder memories, like ginger beer, or a badly played accordion.