My heart goes out to the family of 5-year-old Jack Dixon, swept out to sea at Mt Maunganui on Wednesday.
What I imagine started out as a fun day at the beach ended in a tragedy that nobody could have foreseen.
Sometimes when terrible things like this happen people are quick to point out that if so and so hadn't been doing this or that, none of it would have happened.
In this case that is just not true.
Western Bay of Plenty police inspector Karl Wright-St Clair said it was a "freakish accident" and the children were being supervised by two adults who were not at fault.