As a New Zealand kid, life was based on binaries: Protestant or Catholic? Rugby or soccer? Manual or automatic? Tui or DB? Massey Ferguson or John Deere? Labour or National?
And, my favourite new Mexican standoff - Mitre 10 or Bunnings?
MMP has softened things a tad. A mixed-member potpourri of parties makes for a more fluid Government. We're seeing a not quite so east-leaning National, and a not quite so west-leaning Labour.
This new call to compromise is problematic for ideologically entrenched voters.
Frankly I'm enjoying the status of being under the guardianship of a caretaker Government. It's a type of political purgatory, a welcome, calm hiatus in which Winston will choose the red or blue pill.
In three years' time daggers will again be drawn in a country (to steal a line from James K Baxter's Ballad of Calvary Street) "where two old souls go slowly mad, National Mum and Labour Dad".