In a story last week, Havelock North architect Pierre du Toit said the home-ownership dream was no longer feasible and that society's expectations needed to change.
"People measure their success by home ownership and it needs a perception shift so people can accept that not everyone can own a house, and that a house isn't necessarily a freestanding structure on a 700-metre piece of land."
Too true. I'm all for removing the stigma of not owning a home. It would alleviate the burden for so many young ones.
But the problem is the dream is intergenerational and institutionalised in this country. It's not just a financial goal, but a Kiwi rite of passage.
Some have recommended we adopt Europe's renting ethos and forget about owning.
But a colleague, who yesterday said he pays $440 a week for a three bedroom weatherboard home in Havelock North, reminded me that renting as a lifestyle is a difficult sell.