He dealt with bullying and health challenges before the biggest blow of all, the loss of both children in separate road accidents.
The sudden and tragic deaths of former Gisborne representative athletes Vicki and Mark Furlan left Vic with a choice to surrender or persevere, and he is glad he chose the latter.
“It’s built an inner strength to survive and thrive through tragedy and heartache,” Vic said. “I hope my story inspires others to face and overcome their own unique challenges.
“There’s always light at the end of the tunnel.”
The author has known Vic for more than 40 years and was determined to share his friend’s story in the hope of helping others.
“He has always embodied the ‘no guts, no glory’ approach to life and it has been inspirational to witness,” Graeme said.
“With each passing year and challenge overcome, my respect continues to grow.
“I’m confident that others will love learning about my little mate with the big heart.”
Among many other things, the book chronicles Vic’s time as a champion boxer and jockey, and what he calls a fairy-tale 58-year marriage to Gisborne-born wife, Helen, who died in 2017.
“She was a marvellous wife and mother, and I could never, ever say enough about how lucky I was,” Vic said.
“I struck the jackpot when I met Helen, and I knew it right from the start.
“I learnt so much from her about life, and in my mind we had the perfect marriage.”
VICTORY: The Vic Furlan Story will be officially launched on September 23 but is now available on Amazon as a paperback or e-book.